What makes a woman?

Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.” 
― Joseph Conrad

Some women do not identify theirselves via their femininity; and that is perfectly fine. There are so many things a woman can offer. There's nothing wrong with being feminine, or masculine, - we all have our preferences. Becoming a feminine woman starts from your inner core, and works its way to your exterior.

 
1. SMILE. 
A smile can be the sexiest curve on a woman's body. Everyone loves people who smile. Now of course, don't fake it. A genuine smile is refreshing and unfortunately it is also quite rare. We are all so caught up in our everyday lives that we tend to forget to smile. There are so many things one can smile about. 

2. Appreciate the littlest things.
Someone hold the door open for you? Show appreciation. Doesn't take much to say thank you. It also shows that you have manners. Let's face it, if you do not have manners you cannot be classed as a lady.

3. FACT-You are not always right.
Now of course, we are all entitled to opinions but sometimes we take it a step too far. Biting your tongue can sometimes avoid petty arguments. The need to be right does NOT display ones femine enery. Stop criticizing other people's methods, especially when speaking to men. It makes them feel emasculated and well, to be frank it can be a huge turn-off. We wouldn't like it if they did the same to us right?

4. Free yourself; show your feelings.
Let go of your limits, get out of your head for a while. A true woman makes decisions based on what she feels. If something feels right, let it in. Need to cry? Let it out! You'll notice a huge difference in yourself when you are free.

5.Be vulnerable.
Women generally care about everything and keep their hearts open. Granted you might get hurt along the way but no matter the pain, a woman would rather have had her heart broken than live life on the slow/boring lane. Being vulnerable does not have to be scary. 

6. Embrace your body.
Your body is what makes you a woman. So how can you be feminine if you do not embrace your female form? Love your body by taking care of it. Be healthy. 
FACT: A woman's body naturally has a higher body fat percentage than that of a man, so don't dismiss your curves.

7. Confidence.
Having confidence will not only make you stand out from the crowd, it will also help you to be more independent and outstanding. Never give up on yourself, ever. 

8. Be classy.
Being elegant in all aspect of your life makes you a lady. This can be reflected in your way of dressing, walking and talking. Sit up straight; you wouldn't walk across a room to a man slouching in his chair now would you?

So to wrap things up, I love being a woman! We get to enjoy a wide variety of wardrobe choices. Wear make-up. We are proven to be better multi-taskers. We don't have to wear a suit at a Summer wedding, we can wear our boyfriends/ dad's / brothers clothes and still look good and last but not least, on average we live up to 7 years longer than men.

Elle xx





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